•Tuesday, January 09, 2007
It is a magical bond between two different personalities which includes understanding, belief, respect, handling conflicts, compromising when required, luck and giving each other enough space. This might result in a successful marriage. But still, there is one most important aspect in marriage. It is being friendly with each other. This is where any person can have a long lasting and a wonderful relationship.

I just got some links regarding the same.
How can we step into our spouse's world
Different views of marriage by different people
Nurturing friendship in Marriage
Learning friendship in Marriage

Now just let me know your views regarding a successful marriage.
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18 comments:

On January 09, 2007 8:07 PM , abcd said...

Successful marriage is not about 'when two nice people meet'.
It's about 'when two Right people meet'.

 
On January 10, 2007 2:46 AM , FH said...

Hi Kalpana!

Lot of atience and verbal fights now and then will keep it working too!:)

 
On January 10, 2007 5:16 AM , Sree said...

you are really a sweetheart.. this is an apt post for me at this point in time.

 
On January 10, 2007 6:11 AM , Keshi said...

I have never been married so I really cant say what it should be like etc. But I know one thing for sure. The term 'marriage' should not change the way the couple feels abt each other. Cos I have seen my friends getting married after being in a r'ship, and suddenly they have become too serious and stressed. What Im trying to say is dun let the word 'marriage' stop u from being who u r. Continue the LOVE.


Keshi.

 
On January 10, 2007 6:45 AM , di.di said...

keshi, i totally agree wt you, marriage shldnt change u a bit...

my view on successful marriage... i think it is all about your skill based, how you handle crisis, conflict, problems.

 
On January 10, 2007 9:19 AM , Kalpana said...

pink ginger : Very true. But, do right people meet? We need to make the situations right, I feel.

asha : I agree 100% with you.

sush : Thanks a lot. See, I did the post when it is required. ;)

keshi : Yes keshi. I agree with you. Everyone of us are like that. But still, little changes and compromises are required, though it takes enough time.

dr@ma div@ : I feel personally if everyone tackles a problem as another person, most of it will be solved.

 
On January 10, 2007 12:23 PM , Deepak Gopi said...

:):)I will get married on 2017,after that I will comment .

 
On January 10, 2007 4:10 PM , Artnavy said...

check out my old post-
till death do us part

u may find it interesting and teh comments too

 
On January 10, 2007 5:18 PM , Kalpana said...

deepak gopi : For sure...:)

artnavy : Hey, from your old post, I liked this.

'To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you're wrong, admit it; whenever you're right, shut up.
- Ogden Nash'

 
On January 10, 2007 6:12 PM , The Reading Corner said...

my take on marriage- no matter how successful a manager u r , in this relationship all strategies fail. the heart/ emotions rules

 
On January 11, 2007 2:14 AM , krystyna said...

-Succesful marriage:
they love each other after many years with this same love or more;
*compromising and compromising;
Blessings to you!

 
On January 11, 2007 2:37 PM , my life.... said...

hey,talking abt marriage, u are right... its like one giving in to another.... interesting article... thanks for the websites gal... :)

 
On January 11, 2007 6:02 PM , Shruti said...

successful marriage is when it crosses all the hurdles of small fights and preventing them to gfrow big..
relationship grows on faith and love and that is the most essential thing...

 
On January 12, 2007 10:03 AM , Kalpana said...

itchingtowrite : Yes, at the same time winning a heart too is important for both the partners.

krystyna : Thanks and same to you.

my life : Thanks a lot.

shruti : 'successful marriage is when it crosses all the hurdles of small fights and preventing them to grow big...
relationship grows on faith and love and that is the most essential thing... '. Well said.

 
On January 12, 2007 11:21 AM , Anonymous said...

Marriage is a frank co existance with whom you love.
It is beautiful experience.
I have twelve years to prove it.

 
On January 23, 2007 9:17 AM , Kalpana said...

kulpreet : It's sooo wonderful!

 
On March 16, 2007 10:37 PM , Nihit said...

Good one... Though i m not married so i wont be able to comment much on this but i agree to some extent on what u said and its true...

bythe way are u married???

 
On March 16, 2007 11:36 PM , Yazi said...

Yeah I think understanding & unconditional love is seeds for having an everlasting prosprous marriage..

thanks,

blogging at seed a brain, yazi ~/